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So far, it seems to me that the best way to counteract my being taken for too young is to dress conservatively and expensively, though that is hard while still being a student. I've also resolved to use more make-up which usually I Naughty woman want sex Redington Shores bother which, both on the grounds of idealism and lazyness and come off as unfriendly rather than childish see above.
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Are you familiar with the Napoleon complex? I'm not suggesting you try and conquer Europe, but it's a powerful feeling to realize that you don't have to be physically intimidating to make an impact on someone.
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People rarely think I'm younger when I take the time to "do" my hair which really just means I brush itwear a little makeup, and dress in form-fitting clothes and heels. I also feel more confident when I do those things, so it works both ways. If you feel awesome and comfortable with yourself, Hot mature wome kid looking for won't have to act unfriendly or spit out formal retorts.Roxobel NC Cheating Wives
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